There was a mishap in class a couple of days ago, all the dramatic hand swinging & scratching of face. Scaring a healthy face, caused by anger & to "help her classmate". Unfortunately ended up having to face the compensation alone. Of course, with the presence of the police.

I wonder, do you really think they treated you as a friend?? If you're thinking why am I saying this, then alright, I shall give you a couple of scenarios which you may find it a little complicated or rather clear.

Scenario #01.

You decided to get into a fight, well, it happened just too suddenly. And you know it wasn't even you who should do this, which means, you were just helping your "friend" to get back on somebody. In short, your just some "extra" who just wanted to help. Whereas, during the catfight, your "friends" just watch you. They were stunned, so they just sat down in peace & watch the show going on when you were in trouble. The fight got so bad that the other party's friends had to pull the both of you apart. Without any help from your own "friends".

Alright, it does seems a little complicated but hey, I think this is worth thinking.

Scenario #02.

Continueing to the story, the other party called the police. The police came in, looking for the 2 victims & their witnesses. Your opponent already had a bunch of witnesses willing to help her. Whereas, on the other hand, your "friends" were walking backwards. It is so obvious that you had to call them over, asking them to follow you along to the investigation. Your "friends" were rather shaky in their thoughts, trying to make a decission. They were taking up too much time that the police, your opponent & your opponent's witnesses had to wait for you & your "friends". As you were shouting for them, asking & calling them over, just to help you in your own rush act.

Is this example clear enough for you to exercise on? It's okay if it isn't enough.

Scenario #03.

Another example, a simpler idea. Think, normally, if you were to insult someone, your friend would at least smile & laugh at it to show you support. But what if you shouted an insult to a fella & your "friend" just look & turned away or didn't even bother to know what you were trying to do. This shows no support. This example is more of a minor problem which can be ignored. However, you will eventually get very irritated if they keep on ignoring you which drains your personal ego.

Hope this would enlighten your thoughts on judging your "true friends". Because, true friends are someone who would really be there for you. Not someone who doesn't care about your well-being.

True friends have to be earned by trustworthiness, respect yourself, before you even expect others to respect you.

It is not easy to find good friends in this world. So treasure yourself & your friends will treasure you.

Thank you my friends, :) I love you guys just as much as I love myself. :D Well, if you know me, I am a very thick-skin fella who typically love to praise myself. This is how much I love myself & how much I love you guys too! :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAWN!! Sorry I took so long to upload these photos! :P LOVE YOU ALWAYS!

LOVES! XOXO,

JAYLA :)

It have been a hectic day for me at this point of time. Having to complete my thread of projects which are suffocating me straight in the neck. Stayed up till late for 2 nights now. Why? It was all in the name of school work. Argh!! Well, but it's good news that some of my lecturer gave an extension to our projects deadline! Woot~! It's good news to some of us who have yet to complete the projects though. All thanks to our beloved classmates, Siti & Artiqa! :D Sorry if I got it wrong. :P Wahahaha! Gonna have to hand in another assignment again later, but I won't be in school cus of my stupid work. Oh well, I slept at a ridiculous 5.30 am last night or this morning, just to complete a piece of shitty assignment which we have to hand it in today. Woke up late for work & ended up forgetting my keys & had to U-turn home just to get that fucking bunch of keys! Argh!? Now, here I am, working alone. Living in this lonesome isolated little store I'm in now. Sigh.. Eyes are sleepy, legs turn soft, ears gets sensitive to sentimental songs which is escaping through the stereo speakers. Mind switching off at the impulse of hearing any soft music. This is what is happening to me right now. That's why I'm here to write a post on my mobile.

Now, this is for those who still could not forgot your past encounters. Be it in relationship, death of your close kin, hurtful memories of ur love ones, friendship problems or even insane brothers. Think of the good things in life that they have taught you indirectly! Still in love with that person? You gotta let loose of yourself, dwelling around them won't help. In fact, it'll only hurt you even more! But then again, it may not entirely be your fault, you just needa feel how EXACTLY that person feels. Sometimes, I have to admit that girls can be very contradicting. For instance, we all know that girls mature faster than guys. But, some girls or I should say most girls like to be treated well by guys. Why, girls like the feeling when they know that somebody likes her. Modern ladies are now getting smarter. well, as compared to those girls who committed suicide for a minor situation such as love and school work. After looking at them, we find them rather foolish and we learned a lesson from them. Nobody wants to be like them at all. However, up till now, its time for the guys to be taught a lesson. So guys, if your feeling this way in life that u wanna break down just because of this girl, then its time for you to reflect on yourself. Why do I say this? Alright, put it this way, think of yourself as the "modern" character I've mentioned above, about the girl. And, think of your foolishness as the past. Do you think it's worth waiting for that "jerk" who have hurt you so deeply? Do you think its even worth your tear? How about dying for a bitch or a total bustard who have shot you millions of bullets straight in your heart?? Hell no! But if you find yourself waiting outside the doorsteps of that girl or guy, do not hesitate to knock her/his door to tell her that you still have got feelings for them. It seems really contradicting, but observe her reaction, her response, her body language. It's good if she hugs you immediately, it means that she is serious about the whole relationship. Good for you!
But what if she just smiles at you? Then this can only mean 2 possibilities.
#01. She is totally used to it and don't give a Shit about it.
#02. She do not want to hurt you as she herself is not sure about the whole relationship & just hope u can wait for her. But! Waiting for a girl is definitely not the choice for you, why? It's because this portrays your weakness and you will be giving out the "I can't live without you" vibes. Which is a horrible mistake. Instead, I think you should just apologise to her for disturbing her, and walk off calmly. After walking away, you will either find that the damage caused isn't that bad. Just try not to get into a deep conversation with her when u see her.

There you go! Some little explanation about girls. Well, maybe I'm exaggerating the actions, but I hope this can get you to somewhere you want to be. :)

LOVES,
Jayla! :D

HELLO~ WORLD! Alright, I'm back to talk more about MYSELF! WAHAHAHAHAHA! So, where do I start? Okay.. Firstly, I'm a girl. As far as I know, I'm not a "she-male" as I DO NOT have a dick. I'm a straight too. I am totally NOT interested in getting a relationship with a girl. I like guys. Not just normal guys, I like hot, charming, cute, macho (not those with oversized gigantic hard tyres on their arms of course), both naughty looking or innocent shy lookings, smart, street smart, not a directory idiot, standing at least 165cm tall (I do not dare ask for more because I'm short myself) & most importantly....................................................... he must be GOOD IN BED!! OH MY GOODNESS.. LOL I can't believe I've just said it!

Oh well, just kidding. xD Anyway, I've been spending most of my time in school & home nowadays. Haven't really got anything much to do. Except that I have a couple of projects coming in. SEE! Jayla is such a good girl! ;)

Two days ago, my area hadthis fogging session. You know, those white thick smoke that is used to kill home pest? Yeah.. And this causes ALL the cocroaches & other weird pests to run around the estate. So, if you're afraid of such pest, I suggest you should stay indoor for the day because I swear to you with my bras & panties, the whole of the ground floor was filled with dead / live cocroaches!! There was so many of them that even my dad told me that 1 of the roaches fell onto him while he was waiting for the lift at the lobby with his occupied bird cage! EWW~

But who cares? my family ain't scared of such tiny creatures.

Coming next, here is a song lyrics of my new favourite song.

"3" by Britney Spears

Babe, pick a night

To come out and play

If it's alright

What do you say?

Merrier the more

Triple fun that way

Twister on the floor

What do you say?

Are - you in

Livin' in sin is the new thing (yeah)

Are - you in

I am countin!

1, 2, 3 Not only you and me

Got one eighty degrees

And I'm caught in between

Countin 1, 2, 3 Peter, Paul & Mary

Gettin' down with 3P

Everybody loves

Countin

Three is a charm

Two is not the same

I don't see the harm

So are you game?

Lets make a team

Make 'em say my name

Lovin' the extreme

Now are you game?

Are - you in Livin' in sin is the new thing

Are - you in I am countin'!

1, 2, 3 Not only you and me

Got one eighty degrees

And I'm caught in between

Countin 1, 2, 3 Peter, Paul & Mary

Gettin' down with 3P

Everybody loves

What we do is innocent

Just for fun and nothin meant

If you don't like the company

Let's just do it you and me

You and me... Or three... Or four... - On the floor

Ris Low, formerly known as "Miss Singapore World 2009" was dethroned because of her awful crime living in her past. Firstly, she is being criticised for her strange accent. Or rather "retard language", I have to agree that it is surprising to learn that she actually won the crown & graced her way through the pageant. To be honest, I really couldn't believe my eyes & ears when I watched the video clip of her being interviewed. With all that "boomzz" & the bikini top along Orchard Road. Sounds kinky.

Thus, I have noticed that the media have been criticising her indirectly. For example, in the TV commercial for the "Singapore Idol", which have been emphasizing on the "BOOM" part. Maybe it was rather a coincidence, but isn't it too much of a coincidence? In fact, the media in Singapore is supposingly to be sensitive to such issue. Since she already got the boots from the throne, so why does the media still wants to emphasize on this issue? After giving much thoughts to it, w all know that the media is there only to gain profit. Therefore, I realised that this is the strategy to gain more viewership. Why? Because this hits the interest of Singaporeans right now! Everyone is talking about it.

Have we ever thought how Ris Low will feel right now? It is already stated that she went to the pageant to "represent those who made a mistake & deserves a second chance" quote from her speech during the competition. This tells me that she is giving a hint that she was guilty of a grave mistake (credit card freud). And she is trying hard to change her image & turning over a new leave. Like I have said, that was her PAST. Why do we still have to live in her past?

Oh well, now I pity her for living in these horrible blabbering of the public. It is not just 1 person nor is it just a whole classroom of people blabbering about her, but the whole Singapore! Hopefully, everyone could just stop criticising her so much & carry on with their own live.

ALRIGHTY! Thats it for the political issue. Now, it's time for me to CAM-WHORE with my dog, Sarah!! xD

Alrright, my nose looks fugly here. But I don't give a shit about it now. LOL xD

LOVES,

JAYLA

From the look of my headings, you guys should be able to tell what kind of girl I am. Basically, I love to ENJOY my life whenever I can. Life have got to be simple for me. Or maybe not. What ever it is, it is still too early for me to define my LIFE. That's because LIFE is when one is borned & died.

But if I have to define my life now, I would say, I am trying my best in keeping every situation as simple as it can be. This way, my life could be full of surprises. And LIFE is short. Therefore, it is very important to enjoy the best things in your life. For example, I LOVE to club to destress myself as this is how I relax & let go of myself!

To enjoy, we have to relax & let go of ourselves. Then we'll be able to seize the moment of goodness. There are several ways on how t o relax yourselves, but different types (personality & character) of people have differnt likings to certain things. It is the same logic as when a cow eats grass & tiger loves fresh meat.

Thus, we have to find a button within ourselves to "activate" the muscles in our body to relax. No point going to a club when you knew you didn't like it at all.

It takes time to find that particular "button" . So don't worry if you have problem looking for it, take it easy & slowly.

ALRIGHT! I shall continue more in my next post! I gtg to bed now.. I'm sleepy tired & kinda hungry. But I don't give a shit about my grumbling tummy. xD

LOVES,

JAYLA

It's already 2:50am now. Its kind of like a start of Monday btw. And that means, I am suppose to take a rest NOW & study in the coming afternoon. Well sadly, I just don't feel like sleeping just yet. When I don't feel like sleeping doesn't mean I'm no tired, I worked on a "festive day" sure I'm shagged. Anyway, I left 33% of battery life on my lappy. Thus, I can't use it for too long. Yes I'm home, but I'm simply too lazy to use the socket cus I'm on my lovely bed right now.

Oh well, just another boring post. I gtg now! My lappy could just die off anytime now.

LOVES,

JAYLA

You can tell that I'll be talking more about cocroaches on this post as you can see the BIG & CLEAR title of this post.. Girls, I know that most of you may be afraid of cocroaches but I have to tell you this, that roaches are really HARMLESS physically (as in they do not bite). They may just look kinda disgusting to you but you do not need to scream your lungs out when ever you see them!

Well, I can understand for a girl to scream though, but GUYS if you are afraid of roaches, WAKE UP!! BE A MAN!

Imagine these scenario:

 When you (a guy) with your female crush, walking hands in hands along a romantic pathway all alone, with the beautiful sun smiling your way. Suddenly a tiny roach ran across the ground, you (guy) jumped in horror, with a face full of digust or even hiding behind your crush. And your crush saved your day by chasing the roach away!

OR

 When you (guy) are out with your mates, planning to chill out in a bar down the road. Before then, you saw your crush & asked her along. She agreed. Both of you sat at the back seats of your friend's car, on your way to the bar. Out of nowhere, you saw a tiny baby roach running along the ceiling of the little car & "EEEK" you screech of horror. Having your crush to ask what happen as you pointed at the ceiling with your body leaned against your crush who sat next to you. Surprisingly, your crush isn't afraid of such harmless little creature & attempted to catch the innocent little ones with her bare hands.

Don't you guys feel ashame at all?? What happened to al your male hormones?? Disappeared at the presence of cocroaches?? (Those above are true stories btw) Alright enough of these..

Now I'm going to teach you a way on how to catch cocroaches. (Not with your bare-hands like me or my mom did. So don't worry)

We all have to know that we should never live with roaches, as you know they can breed like nobody's business. So, here we go! An inexpensive roach trap can easily be made from a deep smooth-walled jar with some roach food inside, placed with the top of the jar touching a wall or with sticks leading up to the top, so that the roaches can reach the opening. Once inside, they cannot climb back out. An inch or so of water or stale beer (by itself a roach attractant) will ensure they drown. The method works well with the American cockroach but less so with the German cockroach. A bit of Vaseline can be smeared on the inside of the jar to enhance slipperiness.

There you go! Those of you who are afraid of roaches, here is a challenge for you to overcome your fear. Try catching a cocroach & experiment or keep it as pets in a jar. Hopefully, this would help you to gain a "relationship" between you & the roach. Thus, your foes becomes your friend! (I would recommend guys who are afraid of roaches to do so) 

End of post lovely!

LOVES,

JAYLA

Having another paper tomorrow & that is the Social Behaviour Studies (SBS). This girl here basically had a real hard time understanding the book. Hopefully, just hopefully, the paper won't kill a harmless butterfly. If you think I'm tryng to be thick skin, than you people better KNOW I'm this way. 0:) This is just the way Jayla is people..

Anyway, I'm not gonna crack a brain to think of anything to write here for the time being. Not with all my papers coming out. Shall write more in the next coming week! :)  See y'all!

LOVES,

JAYLA